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Jesse the K ([personal profile] jesse_the_k) wrote2018-01-27 04:53 pm
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Great Essay & ABQ Day 1

Just finished a stunning essay on #metoo and the huge mismatch between women & men re painful sex.

https://theweek.com/articles/749978/female-price-male-pleasure

That's right: PubMed has almost five times as many clinical trials on male sexual pleasure as it has on female sexual pain. And why? Because we live in a culture that sees female pain as normal and male pleasure as a right.
Lili Loofbourow





Albuquerque is indeed SUNNY and WARM. (Well, 49° is plenty warm enough for me, really. It's just cool enough that hot flashes don't matter.) MyGuy and Bella have found a suitable dog park. The local co-op is lovely, a 10-minute stroll away, and its deli does right by the ingredients. We scoped out the local pool and I will report tomorrow.