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In addition to the mushing life, [twitter.com profile] BlairBraverman writes a twice-a-month advice column "Tough Love" at Outside Magazine. In this letter, she's responding to a disabled person whose hiking partner is always pushing her to go faster.

When you struggle to keep up with [him], it’s not because you’re doing less than him. It’s because you’re doing more: hiking, yes, but also caring for a body with significant medical needs and carrying the mental burden of worry about medication and health emergencies. You are not less than. You are, quite literally, working harder.

How to Tell Your Trail Partner to Slow Down: Sometimes, able-bodied partners need to be sat down

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Date: 11/10/2019 09:52 pm (UTC)
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That's so beautifully stated, I love it. I wish I could transmit it into the brains of people I just *walk* with, let alone hike.
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Date: 11/10/2019 11:10 pm (UTC)
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... oh. <3
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Date: 11/10/2019 11:30 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sonia
I loved the whole answer! Thanks for linking. Fair doesn't mean equal. It's not more virtuous to go farther. Yes!
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Date: 12/10/2019 01:34 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sasha_feather
Very clear and helpful!

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