Sunday Word: Purlieu
Sunday, 26 April 2026 01:17 pmpurlieu [pur-loo, purl-yoo]
noun:
1 a place where one may range at large; confines or bounds.
2 a person's haunt or resort.
3 an outlying district or region, as of a town or city.
4 a piece of land on the edge of a forest, originally land that, after having been included in a royal forest, was restored to private ownership, though still subject, in some respects, to the operation of the forest laws.
Examples:
I walk my new purlieu, the boundaries of our new patch, which overlaps the old in a Venn diagram of localism. With my centre shifted, local farms are revealed from fresh angles. (Nicola Chester, Country diary: The strange familiarity of moving a mile away, The Guardian, November 2025)
Once the purlieu of Montpellier’s well-heeled bourgeoisie, these days the Promenade du Peyrou, a park and tree-lined esplanade on the eastern edge of the city, is the stomping ground of tourists and Instagrammers. (The Heritage of Montpellier: Top 5 Things To See and Do, Framce Today, February 2019)
Added to that, they are often in the purlieu of financially stricken Councils who whenever the word 'arts' comes up, are inundated with letters to the Editor saying money being considered to be spent on that would be better expended on hospitals and schools. (Valerie Lillington, The Vicar of Dibley | Noarlunga Theatre Co, Australian Stage, June 2018)
This favourite purlieu of London has larger books than mine devoted to its history. Through the mists of the past is dimly seen a homestead clearing in the great Middlesex forest, that became a manor of Westminster Abbey and a hunting-ground of our kings; then, by-and-by, a resort of Londoners when they could stroll out safely across the open fields of St Pancras and Marylebone. (G B Stuart, A road-book to old Chelsea)
But such betrayals never escaped him when, in one of his inimitable disguises, he penetrated to the purlieu of Whitechapel, to the dens of Limehouse. (Sax Rohmer, The Golden Scorpion)
Origin:
Middle English purlewe land severed from an English royal forest by perambulation, from Anglo-French puralé perambulation, from puraler to travel through, measure, from pur- thoroughly + aler to go (Merriam-Webster)
Dept. of The Darkest Timeline
Saturday, 25 April 2026 09:44 pmI remember how I didn't believe Bob after the "assassination attempt" on That Man In Butler, PA, when he said the whole thing was more than suspicious, it was obviously a setup. We had a largely friendly contretemps about it. After I watched the man's miraculously healed ear I started to think Bob was right.
And now it's happened again, just when his approval ratings are in the toilet. Funny, that; Butler, PA happened when his approval ratings were tanking, too.
A lot of the reporting I'll trust will be independent journalists' not the legacy media types who put on their best duds and attended the White House Correspondents Dinner.
As I said, I used to trust.
But this was, you should pardon my cynicism, a fucking setup.
LW does not have an inlaw problem, she has a husband problem
Saturday, 25 April 2026 10:54 pmMy mother-in-law has a talent for delivering insults with a smile. She will look at a meal I brought and say, "Well, that's certainly ... rustic," or ask whether I am "still doing that little job of yours," even though I work full time and do quite well. My father-in-law joins in with jokes about how their son "used to eat better before marriage" or how I have "modern ideas" whenever I disagree with them about anything from parenting to politics to how often we should visit.
The comments are always subtle enough that if I react, I look oversensitive. But after years of this, I feel like I am being pecked to death by very well-dressed chickens.
What hurts most is that my husband says, "That's just how they are," and urges me to ignore it to keep the peace. But there is no peace for me. I leave these gatherings replaying every jab in my head for days.
How do I tell my in-laws to stop without blowing up the family? And how do I get my husband to understand that "just ignore it" is not a strategy, it is surrender? -- Bruised by Politeness
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LW should've sent this one to Ask a Manager
Saturday, 25 April 2026 10:48 pmI'm in the second round of interviews for another job with a different company, and I'm torn about what to do. My parents think I should stick it out to avoid being seen as a job hopper. But I feel anxious going into work every day. This environment is eroding my confidence.
Furthermore, I will be moving to a new town with my fiance next year, so I'm wondering if it's smarter to stay for another several months or take the new job (which will be remote, if I get it) even though I'm worried I might not like that one either.
Am I too sensitive? Should I leave a job this quickly, or push through until my move? How do I make the right decision when I feel guilty no matter what I choose? -- CONFLICTED IN NEBRASKA
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One of my absolute favorite etymologies is "snoop"
Monday, 27 April 2026 09:40 pmHow often were the Dutch eating in secret that they decided they needed a verb for it!?
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we are learning to make fire
Saturday, 25 April 2026 08:41 pm( Habitation )
Write Every Day: Day 25
Saturday, 25 April 2026 05:18 pmDays 1-15
My check-in: Some light edits to two chapters of the longfic before sending it off to beta!
Day 26:
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ah, yes
Saturday, 25 April 2026 04:59 pmIt's not a subtle film---I appreciate the actors for every reaction shot that isn't hammered in---but it didn't and doesn't need to be. First viewing.
Never mind the totally impossible scenes. Twenty-five years on, one of the most anachronistic aspects is the idea of a US metro's local salon as what's currently called a third place, where individuals from disparate demographics may meet without surprise. Also, it took me a moment (I hadn't looked up the film's release year yet) to realize that Emmett's car is supposed to be an old clunker. I remember when that model of car was introduced.
The thing whereby YouTube offers access for "free, with ads" and then doesn't show ads across several days' interrupted sittings isn't bad. I have another 15 minutes to go, some other day (eyestrain), but this seems like enough for a post.
All of Agatha: Book Review: Elephants Can Remember (1972)
Saturday, 25 April 2026 07:33 pmSo for 3 Weeks for Dreamwidth, my working theme is Arsenic, Belladona, Cyanide, the ABCs of Murder.
Day 1: A is for Agatha, specially my All of Agatha series. Can you believe that after 5+ years, I am finally nearing the end. I have 3 more works to go.
Elephants Can Remember [1972] is not new or particularly interesting. We see themes that have appeared again and again (but she has been doing this now for 50 years and they are tropes because she did them and did them well for many of those fifty years). There is a cold case which has a bearing on a young couple who want to marry. There is Ariadne Oliver as Aggie's stand-in and Poirot. There are really unhealthy views of adoption vs. biological motherhood as well as marriage. There is a repetition of a phrase (in earlier works it was nursery rhymes but now it is the title). The key clue is that a woman had four wigs. It is available in two parts on Youtube narrated by Hugh Fraser. That is the version I listened to and it was okay. I did a collage. For newcomers, this is a scan of a physical collage with paper, washi tape, stickers, etc.

Daily Check In.
Saturday, 25 April 2026 06:03 pmHow are you doing?
I am okay
9 (60.0%)
I am not okay, but don't need help right now
6 (40.0%)
I could use some help.
0 (0.0%)
How many other humans are you living with?
I am living single
7 (46.7%)
One other person
5 (33.3%)
More than one other person
3 (20.0%)
Please, talk about how things are going for you in the comments, ask for advice or help if you need it, or just discuss whatever you feel like.
Poet's Corner: Tree by Jane Hirshfield
Saturday, 25 April 2026 07:01 pmIt is foolish
to let a young redwood
grow next to a house.
Even in this
one lifetime,
you will have to choose.
That great calm being,
this clutter of soup pots and books—
Already the first branch-tips brush at the window.
Softly, calmly, immensity taps at your life.
Icon Meme
Saturday, 25 April 2026 05:17 pmReply to this post saying 'icon', and I will tell you my favorite icon of yours.
Spread the love: copy this to your own journal, showing one of your own favorite icons.
I love icons -- I've purchased extra slots so I can choose among my 220 versions.
3W4DW Prompt of the Day #1: Six of Pentacles
Saturday, 25 April 2026 02:31 pm( What is this about? )
There's another really cool tarot meme here:

The Mystical Dream Tarot & Citadel Oracle
Prompt Meme
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Sun and socializing
Saturday, 25 April 2026 10:15 pmPerfect weather! Mid-70s(F), and I still can't get over how it's not humid and there's no bugs to bother us outside here in the spring/summer.
D and I spent the day in the best way possible: going for a gentle walk around with some people he knows from the internet and two Good Dogs (Toby and Biscuit), followed by a pub lunch.
Then, after a short rest to recharge D and his phone, we went into town for more day-drinking to celebrate a friend's birthday. We got home about 9pm which felt so late but still left me with time and energy to change my bedding (I don't know about D but I was sweating last night), have a shower (so much more sweat in the walk this morning, in the direct sunlight of a cloudless beautiful sky), and dig out the fan from where it's stored over the winter to where it lives in my room when I need it. I worried it'd be a bit unnecessary yet but the fan is fancy and has a temperature indicator on it which said it's 20 (C) in here; yeah that's too hot for comfy sleeping.

