...apparently a lot. (Tell me you're surprised. Go ahead, just tell me.)
As the Brits put in their captions:
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NPR's useful series
The York Project: Race & The '08 Vote follows a roundtable of 13 diverse voters from Pennsylvania. They talk about race—principally, their fears on the topic.
The reporters set up a long-term relationship, in hopes of moving beyond the animosity, silence & nonsense that is certain to accompany initial conversations about race. They're on the right path. The honesty on display in the series is stunning.
From their introduction And since we wanted to make sure our voters got comfortable, we began our discussion with comfort food. Thirteen voters from York and the surrounding suburbs joined us for dinner. Our producers had carefully selected a group that loosely represented York's demographics: young and old; Democrats, Republicans and independents. We thought it was a fairly random group, but once we got into the room, it turned out there were all kinds of connections.The real estate agent and the high school drama teacher had a school connection. The lawyer remembered the law enforcement officer who used to visit his high school for anti-drug presentations. The former factory worker and the seamstress had a common acquaintance. Such is life in a fairly small city.
It's the "all kinds of connections" that make the conversation so important: we may not often be neighbors (given persistent redlining) but we do live in webs of community.
Particularly useful are the reporters' meditations on the meaning of their own race. Here's
Steve Inskeep, who's White:
When race does come up among white people, in my experience, it's easy for people to say a handful of safe things and then stop talking about this dangerous subject. If you're white, there is a formula for you to follow. First, you reflect on your youth. You note that, for whatever reason, you were brought up in a home without prejudice. You may offer an anecdote about how your mother believed in civil rights or how you, yourself, stood up for a black kid in school. Finally, you report that you try to see people according to what's inside them, just as your family taught you.
Michelle Norris, who's Black, recounts her personal experiences with hard-core, totally unsubtle racism, then reflects:
Our conversations in York have me wondering about those men on the sidewalk. I wonder what they would say about this election year if they were included in our conversations. So often, discussions about race are driven by people who chaffed under restrictive laws or customs. The "success despite oppression" narrative is quite common in politics and film and business. Less common — or perhaps more muted — are the contemporary viewpoints of people who enforced, enjoyed or evolved past the point of assumed white privilege.
I've sometimes discounted the thoughtless privilege brandished in online discussions, assuming that those who post them are the exceptional case. This radio series brought me up short, because it ain't just the net, folks.