jesse_the_k: Two bookcases stuffed full leaning into each other (bookoverflow)

Someday I may again add to the cornucopia of excellent reading reports available here on Dreamwidth. In a previous life, enjoying these posts would also add to my teetering TBR pile. Now I get vicarious thrills from how folks’ reading made them feel. In particular:

[personal profile] chestnut_pod
https://chestnut-pod.dreamwidth.org/?tag=books+are+the+meaning+of+life&skip=30

[personal profile] dhampyresa
https://dhampyresa.dreamwidth.org/tag/reading+wednesday

[personal profile] rivkat doesn’t tag and does post many, many great reviews
https://rivkat.dreamwidth.org

[personal profile] runpunkrun
https://runpunkrun.dreamwidth.org/tag/book+report

Any recent DW entry with the tag "books" https://www.dreamwidth.org/latest?tag=books

Self-rec: mostly reviews, but also about the mechanics of reading https://jesse-the-k.dreamwidth.org/tag/reading

Reading-focused communities
[community profile] readingtogether
[community profile] booknook

Let me know whose reading reviews you enjoy....

jesse_the_k: Black dog staring overhead at squirrel out of frame (BELLA expectant)

My mental health therapist is retiring. In the next few weeks I'm scheduled for "brief consults" with possible successors.

I've got a couple questions prepared, and I'd love to know what I don't know to ask.

Have you interviewed therapists? Was there a question/comment which proved useful (or harmful)?

jesse_the_k: text: Oh joy & ecstasy with a cherry on top (joy ecstasy cherry)

Help Me Host a Watch Part for Your Fat Friend

YrFatFriendFilm.com

I loved this excellent documentary about Aubrey Gordon, fatness, family, the complexities of change, and the messy feelings we hold about our bodies. Over six years, director Jeanie Finlay follows Gordon from anonymous blogger yrfatfriend in 2016 to bestselling 2020 writer of What We Talk About When We Don’t Talk About Fat and beloved Maintenance Phase podcaster with an audience of millions.

Aubrey Gordon urges a paradigm shift in how we view fat people and the fat on our own bodies. I cheered and cried while watching the movie, as it shows Gordon’s strength (and love of her body in water) while also demonstrating her family’s ambiguous support and documenting the abuse she experiences daily, both online and off. It’s got pro captions and audio description (but no AD in the trailer).

Trailer on YouTube https://youtu.be/lodyin_6x3c

stream it here )

I want to host a free online watch party, but I’ve never done this. I’m willing to subsidize the license fee. Are you the tech whiz who can help make this happen?

The tasks I imagine:

  • create a PR strategy to garner viewership
  • choose a platform to host the screening; the director has established a relationship with ROCO films, which can supply hosting and logins at FilmForum.net
  • test CC and AD to make sure they're working
  • attempt to prevent unlicensed distribution of the work
  • host a discussion

If you have experience organizing asynchronous, time-limited, online movie showings, and are willing to help spread Aubrey Gordon’s message, please let me know — here or via DW’s direct messaging.

jesse_the_k: Black dog staring overhead at squirrel out of frame (BELLA expectant)

A friend who is not on DW enjoyed the Amazon Prime series Night Sky, an SF show featuring Sissy Spacek and JK Simmons. It ended without resolution, since Amazon canceled it after 8 eps. My pal would love to read the fixit fic.

I tried my fandom due diligence with no joy:

  • zip zero zilch on AO3 or FF.net
  • a handful of Tumblr posts
  • the Reddit sub was folks bemoaning cancelation while mocking the idea of fic
  • Fandom.com site with empty pages
  • an unrelated Anime Discord server.
  • here on DW "night sky" interests yielded amateur astronomers, but nothing on [community profile] dwfanfic

Do you know of Night Sky fan works?

Or more/better places to search?

jesse_the_k: text: Be kinder than need be: everyone is fighting some kind of battle (Default)

I want to help [personal profile] sasha_feather enjoy podfics on her newish Samsung phone.

Barriers: - I know macOS and iOS but nothing about Android. - Since [personal profile] sasha_feather is still recovering from her concussion and my cognition is fuzzy thanks to life-saving psych meds, we need a foolproof workflow. I'm sure there are better, more open-source, less-privacy-depriving paths, but right now we're looking for something that works.

No need to reinvent the wheel -- if you can point me to a site that explains how to do this, SUPER!

Right now I have two questions -- feel free to tell me about others I should be considering.

Q1: What's a basic audio player for Android?

We don't need a music player -- no equalizers, no cross fades, no podcasts. It's just for voice. Automatically saving a bookmark when you pause and a sleep timer are the crucial features. No flashy graphics. Happy to pay once.

Q2: What's the most foolproof way to get these fics into the player?

Right now, the podfics are stored all over: various clouds (DropBox, Google Drive), on clouds linked at AO3, on her MacBook.

Does Android offer a file system?

Could I connect an Android phone via Bluetooth or WiFi and use that system to copy files from the MacBook on the network?

Could we just plug the Samsung phone into the macbook's USB port and read/write its data like an external drive? Do I need a particular cable for that?

My circles has so many technical whizzes -- I'm looking forward to your answers!

jesse_the_k: Two bookcases stuffed full leaning into each other (bookoverflow)

I’ve got around 400 books I no longer want to dust. (I'm saving my vision for new graphic novels.)

  • 100+ science fiction or fantasy, dating back to Again Dangerous Visions from the Science Fiction Book Club
  • 100 fiction, non-fiction, poetry standards found on the bookshelf of every 65-year-old feminist
  • 40+ art topics including architecture, type, books, Celtic patterns, beadwork, songbooks
  • 160+ disability related: theory, history, memoir — in print or graphic novel formats

I’m not interested in making money, and shipping them out would cost a lot as well. Almost all these titles are already available in my municipal and UW-Madison libraries, so donation seems unlikely.

MyGuy has volunteered to scan the titles into a database. That gives me a list, but what do I do next?

jesse_the_k: rose glass pendant hangs from beaded chain with pearls (glass bead pendant)

ETA: Huge thanks to my knowledgable circle! [personal profile] luzula suggest "orthoceratite" and that's close enough for me.

I'd love to know what to call this slightly chatoyant 10-element spear-shaped fossil. It's 35mm long, 10mm at widest point narrowing down to 1mm. Embedded in black rock, shaped and polished and deployed as a pendant.

it's in here )

jesse_the_k: blue satchel with small top handle and cross body strap (handbag)

One of my self-soothing activities was browsing for purses on ebags.com. I’ve been doing it for more than a decade!

Then Samsonite bought the brand and now they just sell boring luggage.

ebags offered tight filters (materials; zipper vs snaps; small, medium, large to a site-wide size constant). Unlike Amazon spits it didn’t show me items outside the filter set.

Please tell me about sites I can browse for purses?

jesse_the_k: Red help button briefly flashes green and blue (Help! GIF)
When I visit any LJ user/community, just as the content finally fills up my screen the page reloads. Over and over.

Happens in both Safari and Brave (Chromium). I do have Adblock at the system level on my macOS Catalina laptop; I do have livejournal.com whitelisted for AdBlock.
jesse_the_k: <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20040204184222/http://developer.apple.com/technotes/tn/tn1031.html">Bitmapped "dogcow" Apple Technote 1013, and appeared in many OS9 print dialogs</a> (dogcow from OS9)
…with support for macOS and iOS.

I’m paying for Dropbox now but they no longer support rendering images in HTML.

It’s possible to publish photos on iCloud as "public websites," but I don’t see where to get the photo’s link. I know that dealing with the macOS and iOS insistence on managing iCloud files in its own way confuses me a lot.

I’m willing to pay for a straightforward system.

I'm reluctant to use Google because Big Google scares me and they have form on dropping support for nifty services.
jesse_the_k: text: Be kinder than need be: everyone is fighting some kind of battle (Default)
I like having a written record of what happened, to supplement my memory.

I switched form Eudora to Mac Mail in the last millennium. I've had at least a dozen email addresses. I've faithfully downloaded everything to my local Mac (IMAP, not POP--I may be old fashioned but I'm not a masochist). I'm more cavalier with my iOS Mail since I know the master version will be on my Mac.

I have 7 gigabytes of *.mbox and sipped *.mboxes.

I know that Mail will be happier if I have fewer "active" messages. Can I somehow export and then delete emails from Mail without losing them?

My search has found no massively helpful article. I want "Take Control of Archiving Your Email" to exist. Can you point me to a step-by-step, handholding resource that will slim down current Mail while still permitting me to read that email I sent to my doctor in 1999?
jesse_the_k: ASL handshapes W T F (WTF)
Winter time in Wisconsin is cold, dark, and low humidity (except for intermittent snowstorms).

Combined with many hours spent in indoor heating creates itchy skin. I've lived here since 1973, I thought I was used to it.

Starting this year, the skin over the outside of my knee cap has decided to get dry and itchy.

WTF? Where do you itch?
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Thirty days ago, I asked how I might improve my visibility as a wheeling pedestrian. Did you ever have excellent ideas!

MyGuy and I have enjoyed this project: We prototyped, we scrounged, we pinned and unpinned. Today I wore the final version and it works great.

Design and Implementation )

Summary

Increased peace of mind as a rolling pedestrian: priceless. Total cost US$75 plus five hours of design, sewing and experimentation. Total tabard weight with chain and flashers is 570g (20 ounces). It’s a snap to put on: I fold the back wrong side to the front, place the front over my cape, then flip the back in place over my head. The generous neck hole provides room for my cape collar to be spread down.

Pictures!

Vest on floor, vest on me )

jesse_the_k: Ray Kowalski is happy to be alive, surrounded by yellow rubber ducks (dS RayK's ducks)
These occurred to [personal profile] sasha_feather and me over lunch. Feel free to add yours in comments!

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rubber bands
8 (23.5%)

backpacks
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jesse_the_k: <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20040204184222/http://developer.apple.com/technotes/tn/tn1031.html">Bitmapped "dogcow" Apple Technote 1013, and appeared in many OS9 print dialogs</a> (dogcow from OS9)

I want to toggle Firefox Quantum’s permission for "Allow pages to choose their own fonts"

I can do this in about:config when I set browser.display.use_document_fonts;0

Is there a one-click way to do this with Javascript or Tampermonkey or AppleScript?

I'm using Mac Mojave.

jesse_the_k: White woman riding black Quantum 4400 powerchair off the right edge, chased by the word "powertool" (JK 56 powertool)

I have bike lights on my wheelchair, and they improve night visibility in fair weather. Unfortunately, from October through April, my outerwear covers up the lights. My cape* is wonderfully functional as wind protection and top layer in cold weather. BUT it’s black leather, and I want to be more visible, night and day.

ETA: Thanks to the extensive suggestions below, this problem was solved. Details at https://jesse-the-k.dreamwidth.org/319362.html

Challenges

  • I know almost nothing about sewing, working with leather, or HIVIS materials
  • Solution must withstand flexing even in very cold weather -10°F
  • I throw the cape in the air to put it on, stressing seams in every direction — See pix 1
  • Cape is not flat — see pix 2 and 3
  • Cape is pieced together from 24 rectangles — see pix 4 — so solution needs to bridge many seams

Reality check my ideas )

jesse_the_k: Alana of Staples/Vaughn SAGA comic (alanna amazed)
In less than 15 minutes I have three concrete things I can do and I am doing!

I'm slugging back decaf tea and water

I am relaxing in bed with TETRIS on my iPad – which now has a low interaction mode where i just tap an outline instead of swiping and turning. If the first one gets too easy (Ha) – there's a back up circular TETRIS.

After dinner I'm going to write a little story about the woman who got hit in the driveway and turned into an avenging stainless steel angel!

I am so grateful for your thoughts and ideas!
jesse_the_k: Extreme closeup of dark red blood cells (Blood makes noise)
Yesterday, as I was rolling along the sidewalk, a jerk in an SUV drove right into me. Tipped my chair over sideways and sent me sprawling. Body wise I'm bruised and OK. Not so lucky re: mind.

I have existing PTSD related to motor vehicles--this is my third sidewalk/driveway crash.

I do have a call into my EMDR therapist, am using anti-anxiety meds, and am meditating a lot. Crash memories are intruding often.

Welcome suggestions on other psych first aid measures!

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