jesse_the_k: Underwater picture of chubby woman stroking and blowing bubbles with a grin (lynne cox swimming)
I hinted back on the 3rd, that I'd begun two self-improvement programs. The jinx is off one of them. I think it's one reason I've been feeling much less depressed and cranky and I've had fewer headaches, and I want to share and boast.

So That's Me, Dunked )

(Yes, it's chlorinated. I've given up soap and shampoo; I apply Aveeno lotion after I rinse off; and MyGuy generously buzzed off most of my hair.)

Northern Happinesses

Wednesday, September 4th, 2013 10:03 pm
jesse_the_k: ACD Lucy holds two blue racketballs in her mouth, side by side; captioned "I did it!" (LUCY success)
  • The basic, eternal joys of Rhinelander: the clear cold lake ringed with conifers and birches. Eagles and loons and deer and (maybe) a cougar. Excellent, copious simple food. Constant reading except when we're napping or strolling around outdoors. MyGuy takes Lucy out on the rails-to-trails, where she frantically follows new smells. Barb and I (when awake) discuss what's happened the previous year, with commentary informed by our forty-year friendship.

  • Fate sent me a remission to coincide with my vacation! One day I walked in town, swam, and still was able to make dinner. This is more than twice what I'm accustomed to accomplishing, and I was truly thrilled. Just realized there was a direct pain/fatigue tradeoff. Still worth it.

  • Five More Lovely Things )
jesse_the_k: Underwater picture of chubby woman stroking and blowing bubbles with a grin (lynne cox swimming)
I had one of those encounters in the weeks before WisCon. I want to record it for posterity, and I welcome your thoughts as well.
What she said, what I did and didn't say )
The ideal response is not having it matter it all. Not surprisingly, Dave Hingsburger's recent entry explores what it's like when we can really not care. Dave Hingsburger's recent entry explores what it's like when we can really not care. )
jesse_the_k: White woman riding black Quantum 4400 powerchair off the right edge, chased by the word "powertool" (JK 56 powertool)
The forecast was "1 − 3 inches" but the reality seemed more like 4.5. At any rate, I dragged my butt, late, spinning and swerving, to the bus stop. After ten minutes I called to see what was up. Nothing firm was promised, so I backtracked two blocks to another line. The bus arrived and was dropping the ramp when I realized I was stuck. I wasn't going to be able to move out of the ramp's way.

Then something so pleasant and organized and positive happened!

I waved the driver on; one of the descending passengers asked if she could help. Oh yes she could indeed. I gave her the "bullet" for helping-on-snow ) and she followed every instruction. After the first try, a guy stopped by and started grabbing for the handle and telling me what was wrong with my wheels. I let him know, calmly, "I've been driving this thing for twenty years so I'm pretty familiar with this situation." He did the universal sign of "no harm, no foul" (backing up and rotating his upper arms so his hands were head-high, palm out) and wandered away.

So Stephanie (we traded names later) gave me just the right traction and I was free of the now-icy bus stop.
"How will you get home?" she asked.
I said, not really knowing, "Oh, I'll figure it out somehow."
She replied, "I live just here (pointing nearby), can I accompany you home?"
I got a clue and realized that a) she was exhibiting all the signs of a sensible person and b) if I got stuck away from the main street I'd be really stuck.
So we s/trolled down to where I could see my tracks, and waved goodbye.

So that was truly good news.

Why can't I swim to the pool?

Northward Bound

Friday, August 17th, 2012 08:36 pm
jesse_the_k: Flannery Lake is a mirror reflecting reds violets and blues at sunset (Rosy Rhinelander sunset)
This place, right here:

OK close your eyes and imagine a lovely long lake surrounded by pines and birches, with a coppery tang to the water due to metals in the soil. I tried to paste in or link to a map but that was 30 minutes ago and I clearly need a vacation.

So, that's where I'm going tomorrow for two weeks. Catch you on the flip side!
jesse_the_k: Swim fins which are also high heels. (shoes are swimmer deluxe)
...is thrilled & chilled. The latter in particular when the world temp is 98 and the pool temp is 83. But why attempt to explain it when I can show you this:
ideal athlete in air and water )Olia Burtaev of the Australian Synchronized Swimming Team. Chris Hyde of Getty Images got this shot as she posed during a portrait session at Gold Coast Aquatic Centre on July 13, 2012 on the Gold Coast, Australia.
jesse_the_k: Swim fins which are also high heels. (shoes are swimmer deluxe)
Wow I love swimming. splish splash )

Jesse Walks! )

So Sherlock BBC fandom has eaten my brain. chomp chump DVD details )

Three by Nine Meme

Sunday, April 11th, 2010 05:06 pm
jesse_the_k: text: Be kinder than need be: everyone is fighting some kind of battle (LUCY lick it baby)
gawked from [personal profile] general_jinjur

THREE NAMES YOU GO BY
1. jesse_the_k
2. jesse
3. sport (only MyGuy gets to use it)

THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW
1. Compression hose
2. computer glasses
3. my first pair of Carharrt jeans, and wow are they comfy

THREE THINGS YOU WANT VERY BADLY AT THE MOMENT
1. Brain-powered computer data entry
2. Stereovision
3. The end of this headache

THREE PEOPLE WHOM I HOPE WILL DO THE MEME
The meme will find you if you need it.

THREE THINGS I DID YESTERDAY
1. Swam 10 laps
2. Medalled in the horizontal olympics
3. Spent five hours in a row online

THREE PEOPLE I LAST TALKED TO ON THE PHONE
1. & 2. Tax customer service people about their wicked incomprehensible online forms
3. Magic Bonnie.

THREE THINGS I AM GOING TO DO TOMORROW
1. Complete proofing the WisCon souvenir book
2. Swim 9 or 10 laps.
3. Finish NK Jemison's Ten Thousand Kingdoms for the [livejournal.com profile] beer_marmalade bookclub

THREE OF MY FAVORITE DRINKS
1. Rishi's Mint Maghreb tea
2. Cocoa from the Mermaid Café
3. Fresh lemonade with fresh mint

THREE THINGS THAT MADE ME SMILE TODAY
1. Being able to electronically proofread a PDF. Not as fast as red pen, yet, but infinitely more portable.
2. Rusty & Boots, red & black mutts full of adolescent energy at the dog park
3. Overhead cranes (no, the ones that fly and make a sound like rusting machinery)
jesse_the_k: text: Be kinder than need be: everyone is fighting some kind of battle (Default)
I usually swim 35 minutes on Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays: keeping to a rigid schedule is important in managing my mental health. Last week I was still feeling pretty slow, feverish, coughing. I skipped my Wednesday and Friday swim but went Saturday. Then Saturday & Sunday I was an antimacassar. I slept most of Monday. Tuesday I went to get puncted and the ever-helpful [info - personal] sasha_feather drove me home where I slept some more. Yesterday was a 100% bathrobe day. I was able to swim this morning, and it felt great! On the bus home I read this: From "Intimate Enemies," Jennifer Berger, p 157 in Body Outlaws, Seal Press, 2000:
begin quote  In the war with my body, we have become intimate enemies. My body is my own, although it betrays me without mercy. I live with it and take care of it. My body talks to me. I have a talent in knowing exactly when I need to sleep, when I need to eat, when to stop the stress of research papers and exams. I'm so in touch with my body that I sleep when I should be writing those papers. I don't have less energy than others; I'm simply more aware that I'm running down before I actually run myself down. I have been given the gift of self-awareness, an awareness that other people I know haven't developed as much. quote ends
Yeah for reframing!

I wasn't being a lazy git for the past while; I was being an expert in body management! EDITED to fix the block quote markup from presentational to semantic, cause I'm an obsessive like that.
jesse_the_k: White woman with glasses laughing under large straw hat (JK 52 happy hat)
Great creative thinking at work over at cripchick's blog re: all the programmatic elements of accessiblity

I'm kvelling re [personal profile] coffeeandink's Ablism: Comment policy clarification. I think the ground is being made ready to address some of the deeper issues: interdependence, disability hierarchies, the tyranny of "normal."

MyGuy and I celebrated our 29th anniversary on Sunday night. I'm proud that we've made it so long together, and that we had the good sense to choose each other. There was some accessibility fail at the first restaurant, but I grit my teeth and got some good eats in the end.

Tapas at The Icon: tasty and not that expensive. Marinated Spanish White Anchovies, Marcona Almond Parsley Pesto, with Chocolate Espresso Crema Catalana. And room for popcorn at home later!
jesse_the_k: White woman riding black Quantum 4400 powerchair off the right edge, chased by the word "powertool" (JK 56 powertool)
Writing this essay helped me move into a world with less pain. It also, to my total joy, has helped others make the same move. Using a wheelchair is not a fate worse than death!

Wheelchairs are powerfully handy tools. I can walk, I can swim, and I prefer to use my limited energy store for activities where that's all I'm doing.

I want to live -- give me the chair:

My body began falling apart decades ago. I get dizzy and pass out when I stand too long or tip my head back. I can't tolerate exercise or repetitive motion: Leafing through a magazine puts my hands out of commission for half a day. Sitting in standard chairs is difficult, since so many joints, muscles, and tendons hurt. Thankfully, my brain developed a rapid-forgetting technique so I'm not overwhelmed by chronic pain. Unfortunately, this means I forget my topic in mid-sentence, and the marketable skills I had seem to have been, um, ahh, misplaced. In 1991 I had to quit even part-time paid work.

ten more paragraphs )

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