How we talk when we talk about love

[jesse_the_k]

A huge plus to MyGuy's temporary unemployment is we can share a post-lunch nap.

Naps tend to divide into two types: simple naps and "sloppy naps" or "messy naps." The first involves sleeping with routine cuddling; the others include romantic interludes often productive of various fluids.

So, what are your code words? Are you slash-level blunt? or modestly coy?

Please share.

Comments

[were-duck.livejournal.com]

AWWWWWW :)

[jesse_the_k]

OK, so we're cute, what can I say. But what do you say when it's time to—in the immortal words of the Ole & Lena joke—do the vash?

[were-duck.livejournal.com]

Like, what do I say to my partner? Or how do I refer to my sex life when speaking/writing to other people?

I'm not usually slash-level blunt, but I'll be direct and use phrases like "how do you want me to fuck you?" if it doesn't seem immediately apparent... though I'm more of a body linguist when it comes down to it than a verbalist, especially if I'm in an LTR and have slept with this person lots before...

[jesse_the_k]

Yeah, like 9 am I hugged MyGuy and said, "Wanna take a nap or a sloppy nap?"

Weird thing is the longer we're together, the hotter talking about it becomes. Huh?

[were-duck.livejournal.com]

Also, YEAH you're cute!

[jesse_the_k]

ICON LOVE!

thanks, it means a lot coming from a cute fountain like you :,)

[were-duck.livejournal.com]

I know! That jackshoegazer, he's a genius!

[heyfoureyes.livejournal.com]

u have a guY?

Yepper

[jesse_the_k]

...and we just celebrated our 31st anniversary. Was that a you have a guy question, or a you have a guy question.

and ditto: spill.

Re: Yepper

[heyfoureyes.livejournal.com]

it was a you have a guy question. it just seems like you'd be such a good dyke.

and wow, you guys were pretty young when you got together. lucky you.

Re: Yepper

[jesse_the_k]

Thanks -- I think I'd make a pretty good dyke, too -- I'm bi, and very monogamous. It was a roll of the dice. Given our longer lifespans, I'm sure I'll spend my old old age with a woman.

Twenty-two isn't that young!

And is that fabulous photo you?

Re: Yepper

[heyfoureyes.livejournal.com]

no this photo is not me, it's a handsome Puerto Rican actor. I did have the same haircut myself at 22.

Naps

[busman1994.livejournal.com]

We spend almost all of our time at home on the bed... it's the centerpiece of our small apt, and didn't fit in the "bedroom" so it's in the room right as you walk in the door. Along with the TV, Stereo, (why does that sound so old-fashioned?) and a large part of our library. Since we spend so much time on it, (as a couch) our code words are simply "Wanna take a nap?". Also because I can guarantee that I will nap after,while she gets charged up and ends up doing stuff around the place.
Congrats on the 31 yrs. Next Oct will be 11 for us, and we will celebrate by actually making it legal, then having a party. Invite will follow later.

[fullygoldy.livejournal.com]

hmmm... I'm not super verbal, but we've had a few code phrases over time. My favorite code/activity was "morning licks" which is a lovely, low key way to start the day - a little foreplay that lasts until lunch (if you're impatient) or bedtime (if you're busy). Just a promise of good stuff yet to come.
"Naps" are typical of daytime sex, and "Wanna sleep naked?" is a nighttime invite. "Camping" at home typically means outdoors, with or without a tent ::g::
I'd really like to be able to say "I want to blow you" with a straight face and without blushing or feeling like an idiot - it seem like it ought to be doable, but it's a goal I'm still working on.